Dr. Love?

Ive noticed that some people used to talk to me because they needed my advice, like ....

1. how to be more impressive/attractive

2. starting in a relationship w/these questions;
A. how are they going to reach 4years and up
B. What are the challenges that may come
C. Do u agree in LDR
D. What to do if it's complicated
E. How would u know if its already Him

3. how to make their life lighter, what are the secrets.

... and it made me decide this night to write a blog using these topics. So inspiring!

#1. How to be more impressive/attractive...

There's a song saying, "You dont have to try so hard, you dont have to gv it all away, u just have to get up, u dont have to change a single thing, you dont even have try..."

It's simple, be yourself. Do whatever makes you happy. Enjoy your life like everyday is the last day.

#2. starting in a relationship w/these questions:
A. How are they going to reach 4years and up? How to have long term relationship.

Based on my ex suitor whose now my boyfriend, You dont have to make the "ligawan stage" longer.. it's the relationship. You will discover new things about ur partner if you will give more time to know each other. To make the relationship long lasting... u have to be:
PATIENT-dont make the things complicated. Be patient and w8 for the good things to come on ur way.
TRUST-dont think too much abt his/her actvties
HONEST/LOYAL- cause it makes the friendship stronger
CARING-know the weakness of ur partner and support him/her by showing that ur alwys gna b there no mtter wat
APPRECIATE-the efforts. Give back... recognize the little things, enjoy ur time 2gether...

Dont count the years, count ur trails that makes u stronger and stay inlove with each other all the time.

B. What are the challenges that may come?
There are different trials and challenges to come that will make u both stronger. You will know if he's still into u.
Basic problems in a relationship:
1. Jealousy-dont judge if u dont have proof. There are people who chose to do what others think abt them than proving what they have.
2. Trust issues-try to believe, lessen ur doubt. It might give u worries. Give space on his/her hobbies.
3. Selfish-Don't do the "I want" Manner. Give him chance to decide what he wants for both of u...

There could be 2 results after this challenge, it could make u stronger together or break up. So take time, be free to express ur feelings in a good way.

C. Do u agree in LDR ?
It depends on the situation. Ive seen couples who comfortably face this challenge. As long as you can find ways to make some effort to talk to him/her everyday, I believe your relationship will stay stronger, but if there will be no communication at all since ur partner left, then that's going to be the problem. It is a big trial cause you have to wait for him/her to come back. You have to trust and to be loyal too.

D. What to do if it's complicated?
How complicated?
*He already have responsibilities. If he has a child and a WIFE... then how do u call yourself if you will accept that consequences? First, you will nver be happy... if you are still single, find a single person whose not married. You dont have to ask that. If he says he didnt love his wife and he loves you... would u believe? You must use your head. Remember , you deserve to be happy and free. You are the one to chose your destiny.

E. How would u know if its already Him?
If you feel these things:
*no matter what happens, he is on your side thru ups and downs.
*he makes you feel comfortable when ur not ok
*he find ways to make u smile, because of his positive thoughts in life.
*ull tell urself that u can be happier if u both settle down
*as long as ur with him, u dont need anything else

#3. How to have a lighter life.

In every life situation, we all need someone to lean on. We need friends and family on our side. But the most important thing is... you have the faith. When I was on my teenager stage til I got my first job and as I continue my journey, I put all my worries to God. Prayer is powerful, faith is the best thing we should have in life. Faith that we are going to achieve our goals, faith in whatever we do. Faith with action is better, you wont achieve something if you dont take your first move. That's what they say, "Do your best and God will do the rest." That's the secret.